Oh my dear friend, I heard your plight. You are a beautiful, desirable woman. You have very womanly needs and wants. I feel your pain of not being able to enjoy the splendor of intimacy that most men and women enjoy.
I see that you are blaming yourself but please don’t. Even though most men and women enjoy the closeness that two people share in the privacy behind closed doors, those very grown up times, you are not alone in not wanting the same. There are many others just like you that cringe at the thought of having that man who loves you touch you in the most loving way possible. Maybe you are afraid he doesn’t really love you. Maybe you have never been loved before.
Truth be told, most men have absolutely no clue how to love a woman. They have no idea how to touch and caress us. A simple look and caress can be the hottest thing two people can share.
Maybe the men in your life had no idea that the mere sound of their voice could send shivers through your body.
Most men think pounding away inside you should do the trick and feel quite angry and put off when they realize it doesn’t.
My friend, you need so much more. You feel because you have not experienced the gentle love of a man that something is wrong with you but you must realize nothing is further from the truth.
My friend, there is nothing wrong with you. You are not alone.
