I’m not sure if I am just expecting too much or if my intuitions are correct.
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months. In the beginning he was lovey dovey and quite passionate when he made love to me. He even began to start telling me he loved me on a daily basis. Then all of a sudden it stopped.
He no longer looks at me with passion in his eyes. He no longer wants to make out with me. When we have sex it’s like “wham bam thank you maam”. There is no sensuality or passion when we have sex. He doesn’t really kiss me any more during sex. Hell he doesn’t really kiss me at all. I usually get a little peck more out of duty then passion and desire.
I have brought this up to him but he tells me we need to slow down because I am too intense for him. Am I really? I just want affection and passion.
He claims he still cares and doesn’t want to leave. Sometimes I believe him and other times I think he is just not into me and is biding his time until he chooses to leave.
I am torn and not sure what to do. I need affection and passion and he’s just not giving it to me anymore.
I don’t know what to make of this. This really sucks!!!!!
